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what can i do? i have the BIGGEST crush on my best friend brother?
i really , REALY like my best friend brother ! how can i flirt with out my friend catching on like her brother? i really like him ! did i say that already? :D
i really , REALY like my best friend brother ! how can i flirt with out my friend catching on like her brother? i really like him ! did i say that already? :D
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10 years ago
Why do you care whether she's aware of it? If the relationship actually goes anywhere, she'll know sooner or later; you might as well get it out of the way. Besides, she'd be a great source of information about his reactions...
Answer 10 years ago
One point, since you used the word "crush" --Be just a bit careful to make sure you understand your own feelings, and beware of implicitly promising the guy more than you're willing to give. Especially if he's a bit older than you. Remember that it's always fair to say "oops, I didn't mean it that way" or "this is going a bit too fast for me, can we back off a bit"... or even "hey, I like you a lot as a friend, but I think I'd like to just be friends." Having a crush, like "being in love", comes and goes; it's fun but very hard to sustain for long. Really loving someone, and being loved, has a lot more to do with friendship and trust, and usually takes some time and thought... more effort, but more lasting.
Answer 9 years ago
orksecurity is right, people. bespeaks wisdom that could be of use to many of us.
Answer 10 years ago
I second that. If she's really a friend she'll love it. If she's not really a friend she'll just get jealous.
Answer 10 years ago
Thirded - sneaking about will cause problems in the long term. Be upfront, maybe even ask your friend to arrange a meeting.
Answer 10 years ago
fourthed...Life's too short.
Answer 10 years ago
Fifthed. (?) Being sneaky only angers people in the long run.
9 years ago
sixthed.lol. honesty prevents anger and more conflicts later.be upfront...and dont let ne1 take advantage of you...its not fun.