relationship help?

Well, me and this cute girl in class that i reeeeeally like finally found out we both like each other (i've liked her for about two years now) and we are just getting to get together etc.. I'm eleven in grade six and was wondering if there was anything i can do for her or with her to make this a long-lasting relationship, may i ask?

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It's my girlfriend and i one year anniversary coming up soon and i have no ideas on what to do.

We are on a pretty tight budget so keep that in mind.

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how do i get a girl with a broken heart?

I've fallen in love with a girl that just broke up how do i go about telling here that im head over heels about her.

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I like this girl in my school but i don;t know how to ask her Please help?

She is my friend and She is realy nice tome But I am very shy.

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i have this friend that just separeted, and i like her. how do i tell her or should i tell her that i love her?

Shes older and has a kid, which i get along with. and i have fun when im around her.

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How do I commit to ONE person?/?

I love him with all my heart and he has all the (well most) of the qualities I want in a man, but I just cant seem to commit my body and soul to him. My eyes and mind wander towards other men.

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How should i let him know i'm into him??

I really like this guy classmate who happens to be a friend for about 3yrs. I'm really into him & with the passing of time not only it didn't went away( I hoped for a while that it would happen so), it grew to a higher level. Right now he's dating someone else, the very fact that has made my life a misery. I can't make my daily tasks done , let alone my studies. I have to say i have been a bit shy letting him know all this time & actually afraid that how he will react & what will happen to our friendship. So will you plz let me know what i should do? Thanks.

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How do I turn an ex into a friend?

I dated a guy for about six months.We had a really good time but things started getting complicated. I was friends with my ex-boyfriend and he didn't like that we still talked even though I assured him we're only friends. One night we got into a fight and I got upset and ran into my ex by accident. My ex wanted to know what happened and then they started fight. My boyfriend said he was sorry but I broke up with him. He moved away and three months later I start dating someone else. Well he came back and wants to get back together. He won't staop calling and I want to friends but how do I get him to understand I want him as only a friend.

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HOW TO FIND LOVE?

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How do I balance a friendship and a girl?

I have a problem with a friend and a girl. My friend and I both really like the same girl but he has had a previous relationship with her. I'm not sure how she feels about him, though. Anyway I really want to ask her out but so does my friend and since she broke up with him and he still has feelings for her I feel like it might be wrong to ask her out and that it would really hurt our friendship. I also told him that I would back off at least until he asked her out. So my question is should I ask her out at all and if I do should I wait until after he tries like I said I would or should I just tell him I shouldn't have said that and that I plan on asking her out soon? Thanks.

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Hey, me and my friend are really different and its tearing us apart and it didn't used to. Can you help please? Thanks!!

I'm 11 and going to middle school soon. Me and me ex-bff are still friends but not really. Shes really nice and funny but we are way different. I know the differences but basicly it's cuz I hung out with other people to practice for the talent show. She's probably jelous and keeps making up rumors about me that EVERY BODY believes. Now i only have one friend. She's stealing all my friends and lies a lot, like I said about the rumors. Now the boy she likes is always taking her side and vice versa she's making up rumors about me and telling them to him, which he spreads on.  So now i don't like him anymore...But  as you can see from above that isn't the problem. If you think you can help please help. I talked to the counsler at my school but that didn't help much : /

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I need help finding the right way to talk to a girl I am interested in?

I tried internet dating sites to gain my confindance back but it has made it worst I have been the most successful on paid dating sites but do not have the desire to pay or have the money to pay for them. I have been best going to school and talking to people I know but they just do not fit my catagory of dating so I want to go out further and see and meet people but I need the proper way of telling a girl I am interested in her and would like to know more about her I have gone on several dates when in school and they were complete failure I need to somehow know how to make her interested in talking to me without the dating prospect maybe going out as friends at first and I try that on Internet dating and it is frustrating becuase people take it so litteral that is what you do before you want to date right  I really want to know the skills to get a girl interested in wanting to hang out as friends and I can use it anywhere  

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How do I tell if a guy likes me?

I'm a college sophomore, 18, and I've never really cared about dating before so I've never kissed a guy, never had a boyfriend, never even held hands romantically, haha, but finally I've found a guy I really like. We've known each other for almost eight months and we're good friends and have even been on a few casual dates.  He found out that I liked him as more than a friend at the very end of winter semester, right before I was going home for the summer, and when we talked about it, he said he'd thought about officially asking me out, but thought it wouldn't be a good idea since I was leaving and we wouldn't see each other for a while.  I kind of agreed with this. So over the summer, I know he was kind of dating someone, but the girl just recently told him it wasn't working out.  He took me out to dinner a few days ago and things are completely normal between us, zero awkwardness. And I'm TOTALLY confused! I know he likes spending time with me, and we've got to be something more than friends (right?) because we've been on like four dates by now. Any ideas of how I could find out if he likes me would be really helpful, or any way I could let him know I'm still interested in him without being in his face about it, would be really helpful.

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I need help on a situation. School is coming up in a couple days. Can i get help?

Look, i need help regarding a relationship between me and a friend of mine, amanda cox. Shes cute, puts the smile in our faces, and keeps my friends together. Anyways, last year, i had a small relationship with her. She had a crush on me, and i failed to notice it in time.  It is unknown if she still has feelings for me. I like her, but, not as special as last year. Can anyone help me out at what this means? Is my relationship with amanda doomed, as to say, never to be boyfriend and girlfriend? please respond ASAP.

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my girlfriend and my 8 month aniversery is coming up on te 26 of september and I need a gift Idea? Answered

she likes duct tape, zombies, ninjas, and facebook so PLEASE HELP ME I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO!!!!!!(panicked yell)

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Will he think I'm a creepy international stalker?!

There's a guy I like, and we have a weird chemistry, but I don't know what's going on with us if anything. Will he freak out if I send him a text message saying I miss him? (I'm currently in a different country)

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How can i get this girl to like me? (its a bit more complicated)

I really suck a relationships, so I know i screwed it up. So theres this girl that i had a feeling she likes me but im not too sure yet, so i didn't do anything and just waited, and after a while we talked less and less, so i got the feeling she didn't like me so i just did nothing...again. Then a while after that i found out she actually did like me, so im basically killing myself now. (well not really but i just hate myself for being a dumb ass) So now, i really really like her and i can't stop thinking about her, literally everything reminds me of her, what should I do? we started talking more now :D

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How Can I preserve a ticket stub from a movie theater and still be able to read it? Answered

I have a Ticket stub from the movies that kept from my first date with my girlfriend and want to preserve in a way so I can Give it to her as a gift. Its ink is fading and the process mush not cover it up. Please Help thank you.

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What does it mean when I have a dream about the person I like? Answered

In the dream, i was at this dinner party thing, and most of my friends are there and the girl i like is there with her parents (which ive never met in real life before). The girl's mom asked her if i was the one? and she said yes, and then the dinner thing just continued. After a while most of the people started to leave and it was just me the girl and her parents. She invited me to the bathroom and she said "I really like you" then we hugged and I said "I really like you too" and im not too sure what happened after, I think we ended up at her place not sure what we were doing...so what does this mean, is this a good sign?

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How do i get my girlfriend back? Answered

We broke up over 3 months ago, and i never stopped liking her. She is very... Fickle and not like any other girl i know. Now she has a boyfriend, but he treats her like scum and she doesnt seem happy with him at all. She seems like she's in a rut or something and all my friends think she's crazy now. I just want her to come to her senses. I can't really put the rest in words but at this point i think you get the jist. EDIT: She broke up with me because she liked this jerk guy i just described... i dont get it though because she's HATED him with a passion for her whole life. The guy has no morals at all and he doesnt even talk to her. they just sit there when theyre together dont even hold hands Note:I swear to god if anyone says READ MAI GUIDE ill be so pissed. Not only that but please give RELEVANT advice (i hate when people say stuff like: oil her stairs down and when she slips and falls help her up HOW WOULD I GET INTO HER HOUSE?!?!?!?)

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How whould you ask a girl out? Answered

As many teens many are less confindant about asking each other someone should make an instructable on it!

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How do I go about persuading this girl I work with to go out with me?

This normally wouldn't be a problem for me but the downfall of the situation is that she is 27 and I'm 20 years old. She has an amazing personality similar to mine, has the same taste in music as I do, and she has this amazing ability to understand my sense of humor. She even said to me "its a shame you're so young, you could've had a "maybe baby"" after we were done discussing our music taste. The thing is, she is very silly at times. Now what I mean by that is that she is goofy and very free-spirited when she works and converses with others. Which to me is the icing on the cake because it means I don't have to feel uptight and act like a tightwad when I'm around her. She has these amazing eyes that I stare into every time I speak with her which deter my focus away from her astonishing body which would be something I focus on with any other girl. Long story short, believe she likes me for me but I just don't know how to conquer the idea of the age difference in her head. Any help would be greatly beneficial and appreciated.

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My Chihuahua doesn't like the new puppy. He's been being aggressive, please help!

 we just got a new Chihuahua puppy ( a little girl) yesterday. She is spastic and literally the definition of hyperactive. we also have another Chihuahua, my 2 1/2 year old boy, who had taken a very big liking to me the day I got him. every thing was fine yesterday, he sniffed the pup and even licked her face a couple times. he growled a little when she played roughly with his own two pups ( both boys), but that is all that happened. until today: I was trying to get the pup to go to the bathroom and she kept bounding all over the place, especially on me, but my boy didn't seem to like that at all. He was suddenly very aggressive and made many sharp movements as if he was going to bite the little pup ( he didn't). Is he jealous? afraid I like the pup more? or is he just trying to be protective?

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how do you tell if a girl really hates you or actually likes you?

Yes, i am asking for exactly the reason you think, does anyone have any advice

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how can a relationship be better is one patner is lacking intrest?

What am' really trying to say is that intrest is lacking in my relationship and i really don no the next step and both party don want to let go

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I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. What should I do to keep him excited in our relationship? Answered

He lives in another state than I do, and we wont be able to visit eachother because of school.

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CHALLENGE! Make this mattress!?

The "Love Mattress" I have seen this thing on the internet for years, and somehow or another, it's been in the prototype phase for years, and I still don't see it on the market.  It was designed by an Iranian designer named Mehdi Mojtabavi, who apparently is in no hurry to sell the darn thing. http://dornob.com/modular-love-mattress-made-flexible-for-cuddly-couples/  So here is the challenge, if anyone is man (or woman) enough to accept... Make one! If my girlfriend doesn't get one soon, she might throw a Veruca Salt temper tantrum (I WANT IT NOW!)

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Is it right on her part?

My gf is mad at me bcoz i wrote about our relationship in her testimonial even though she finds it interesting to discuss it over the phone. She actually called me a jerk. Was it right on her part?

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How do I know whether or not by grade 8 crush likes me? Answered

I'm in grade 6 and I really like this guy but he's in grade 8 and I rarely ever see him. I only started seeing him more when he got in trouble so when I enter the school in the morning he's always there facing the door helping with the lunch "tickets" that I get everyday just to get his attention and even then it feels like he likes me but I'm not sure because he's always so emotionless around me and when I go to get lunch with my best friend, my crush only says hi to my best friend and looks at me I always feel he's eyes on me the only time we ever talked was when I first meet him I asked his name and he smiled and replied, the second was at lunch when I was laughing like crazy and he came up to us and started laughing too cause he over heard me saying something so weird and crazy to a friend of mine and everyone was like what, so yah I really don't know if he likes me or not?, I keep getting mixed messages and somethings it feels like he's ignoring me By the way I'm 5'3 and he's like 5'7 or 5'8 (I don't know why I added that in :>) and he's like the jock of the school, he's popular, cool, and calm and I'm well known around the school but I wouldn't say I was popular, I'm too confident for my own good and I'm not afraid to voice out my opinions and I think that me and my crush are a perfect match

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i like a girl at skool?

I like a 12year old at skool she likes soccer and smiggle any idea what i should get her

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How do I prank my long distance boyfriend?

My boyfriend is at school right now and i'm at home.we live 2 hours away from each other so it's a long distance relationship & I REALLY wanna prank him when he calls me later today.Any ideas?Telling him I'm pregnant or that i'm going to break up with him has already been suggested but i want something different.btw,me & his parents get along really well if that helps.

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friends?

I would like to have an online (e-mail) relationship with a guy and or girl my age (14-16) because i have no friends here where i live. (penticton bc) if thats at all possible. rigidmaster@gmail.com

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How to impress a guy you like? (asked by a girl)

I never had a boyfriend in my life and I would like some tips about how to make a guy look twice at you! (in other words, how to make him take advantage of you). Any do's and dont's will help! I would like to hear what the guys find most appealing in girls? And I'm not talking about making the guy want a one night stand, I'd like to build a relationship. Tips on a good friendship with a guy will also help.

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gift advise

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months.. Hes really great and its my longest lasting relationship. He said hes getting me something and i have no idea what to get him. Any ideas?

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Account / Contact Information Changes

This sit is a love / hate relationship!!!  I love all the stuff on the site BUT I can't find anywhere to change my Account / Contact Information!!!  ALSO, is it me or does everything load really Slooooooooooow on this site???

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ho do i ask girl out

Theres a girl called faith in my class that i like i want to let her know that i like her( ask her out) but she is quiet and i havent talked to her much i am in sixth grade so yeah wat do i do

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How do i win my ex girlfriend back,i can't live without her she was my everything?

Yes im gay and im having relationship issues. My girlfriend's ex came back into her life and she left me for her. But the only reason she met her ex was because we were taking a break....i have to have her back she is my world

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How do I tell my best mate i love them?

I'm only 10 but i think i'm in love. I'm too shy to tell the special guy. Plus he's going out with my other best friend! How do I do it without affecting the relationship i have as friends between the boy and my best mate?

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How do you ask a girl out?

We are both currently in hugh school and I have known her for almost 3 months. I really like her and want to ask her out, but I am not sure how to do it. I haven't seen her outside of school yet so I am not sure if I want to say "Wanna hang out this Saturday?" or "Will you go out with me this Saturday?". Which way should I go? I want to ask her later today.

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How do you date a women who has 3 children?

I am in the earlly stages of dating this girl ive known since my freshman year in high school. This was in 200-2004. She went through a heartbreaking divorce and everything is now finalized. I know she wants to start out slow which I have no problem with, but now that that the choldren are on summerbrake she will be with them more so how do I get closer to her letting her I know that I want to be apart of her life.

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My girlfriend's father caught us making out in her backyard at 1:00 am. He was pissed. What should I do?

My girlfriend and I have a very happy relationship. We couldn't see each other during the day, but decided we really wanted to hook up that night. Her parents go to sleep at 10:30, and she decided to sneak out and I'd meet her in the backyard, since her house is in walking distance.I told my parents I was going for a walk around the block. I left at 11:00 pm and said I would be home by 11:30, which is the curfew when minors have to be off the streets.I get to her house and 11:10, she quietly sneaks out and we meet up. I had intended to leave and be home on time, but soon found ourselves making out under bright moonlight and we just couldn't bring ourselves to end it.Soon I start getting phone calls from my parents. My cell phone is vibrating in my pocket but I didn't pick up. Quite frankly I was too lost in the moment to care.I ignore the calls for a while. After a long time, we're both terrified to hear the back door open and her father come out!He says, calmly but obviously pissed. "---- come inside. And you best go home."I slip away without a word, obviously pretty spooked. I get to the end of her street, and check my cell phone. It's 1:00 AM!!My parents called the police and reported me as missing! I got to the end of her street, and a police cruiser picks me up for being out after curfew.They contact my parents. I wasn't arrested because I explained to the officer the situation, I was with my girl, we lost track of time, honest mistake, apologies, etc. My parents call my girlfriend's parents. Her folks are obviously not happy with me. I've had my cell phone service disconnected, and my girlfriend doesn't have Facebook, e-mail, or any way for me to contact her.I need to know----1. How to make amends to her parents2. If we can continue our relationship with her parents hating me3. How to manage this whole clusterf**k situationPlease any advice will help! This just happened yesterday so I need to act. I'm really crazy about this girl and we have a great relationship, it'd be a shame to lose it.Thank you so much to everyone!-IR

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How do I ask an older girl? Answered

Ok so, there is this girl and she is 19 years old. I am 6 years younger than her and I barely said ANYTHING to her. I know I don't like her for the way she looks, I know and I can feel that there is something inside of me saying that I want to have a real relationship with this girl. It kills me inside because virtually, there would be no way of us being a couple but I know in real life, anything is possible and age never matters when it comes to life/love. I am writing this to get opinions on how to approach this situation of asking her out. Please please please comment!!

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Magnetic Silly Putty - Thinking Putty

A friend of my friend Rhett just launched Thinking Putty, which is ferromagnetic silly putty. You might recognize the site, Crazy Aaron's Puttyworld, as they had some ads on Instructables last Christmas season (for full disclosure, at the time I didn't realize I was only one degree of separation from the advertiser, and now I'm posting this because I think it's cool, not because of an advertising relationship). According to Rhett, this new grey stuff feels exactly the same as regular silly putty, and it is pretty strongly ferromagnetic, as you can see from the videos. Aaron apparently has a ridiculous amount of putty related chemicals in his basement, and it took him a few years to figure this out.

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what should i do?

Me and my girlfriend started goin out the last week of school, and we stayed together for almost a month until she found out i was cheating on her then she broke up with in the middle of our summer break then school started back a couple weeks ago we got back together last week... she used to talk to my besfriend during the summer and tell him eveything and eh told me everything she said then i find out she was cheating on me to... she told me that he was lying and i believed her until h showed me all the messages she had sent him... i have not said anything about it to her yet but idk what to do??? is our relationship going to last??? if so for how long???

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How should I ask an older girl out if I've never asked someone out before?

I'm a sophomore guy and there's this junior girl that I like, I know her a little bit, not like a good friend, just someone she knows. I'll occasionally (more like hardly) talk to her a tiny bit, a little small talk, and I want to get to know her a little better and eventually ask her out. The sad thing is that I've never asked someone out before, so I need a little bit of help here. I don't even know if she likes me or not, so how should I approach this? Any tips and help would be greatly appreciated.

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International CYNETART competition

Call for Entries for the 14th Festival of computer-based art CYNETART || entry deadline 28.02.2010 TMA Hellerau hosts this international competition of CYNETART, inviting artists and art groups to present their projects, every two years. They can apply with projects that fully utilise digital technologies in their conceptual, creative and performing processes, thereby opening up opportunities for digital performance and their relationship to factors such as time, space, physical presence and social encounters. An international jury with representatives from well-established media culture institutions and experienced scientists with a background in media art history will decide about the winner of the CYNETART-award and the sponsorship award. It will also decide on the award of the artist-in-residence-grant funded by the Saxon Ministry of Science and the Fine Arts. Further information/ Entry Form: http://t-m-a.de/cynetart/wettbewerb?lang=en  

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ok. its me and my boyfriends one year anniversary. need ideas for sweet+romantic, inexpensive gfts to make for him .

Hes 17, turning 18 soon, and from our level in this relationship, it might as well be a 5th anniversary. he likes music, guitars, shiny things (lol), things that go BOOM!, fire, and other wonderful things tha guys tend to like. ;P he's gotten me some really sweet gifts before (heart pendant and giant teddy-bear for xmas, ring for v-day, and draws my name in graffiti lettering on posterboard for me all of the time) but i never have enough money to actually get him something, and its just more fun to make something cool and unique to show how much i love him . out of the ordinary is a big++

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How do I tell a close friend how I feel about them?

I really need some advice. There is this girl I really like, we have been really good friends for years now, but right as I got up enough courage to tell her how I feel and ask her out, my brother askes he out, and she says yes. They broke-up about five months ago; she said she didn't see that the relationship was going anywhere. Now that they ended it and it seems like it has been long enough to try to ask her out again, every time I try to hang out with her when it is just us, something always comes up either with my parents or hers. Can anyone give me advice on how to act on this, because it seems like a very delicate situation?

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For Instructables, 2009 is a Green Year

Part of Instructables' mission is to inspire our community to create and share great projects. We do this though contests, theme months, and challenges that are seasonally appropriate, part of a bigger cultural trend, or simply areas where we want to see more great Instructables. This year we've decided that our overarching theme will be "Green."Our Green category focuses on the environment, reuse and recycling, and saving energy or making it in new ways. However, there's more to it. Green projects cut across all of our categories, and DIY is deeply and inherently green. When you make something yourself you often save materials, time, or money, while simultaneously generating less waste and creating a relationship with your project. Because of that relationship, you are more likely to cherish the final product, upgrade it, repair it, or even pass it along to someone else who will also cherish it. All of these actions involve making more with less, and that is fundamentally green. From my perspective as a life-long DIYer, I feel that it's time our culture took an active interest in all things green. I want to make sure the things we do are meaningful. We may have passed peak oil, but we can all work to ensure we pass "peak waste." So, to help inspire you, we'll be running a number of Instructables project contests all with a green theme. Some will be large, and some will be small -- we've even arranged sponsorship to give away Voltaic solar laptop bags and an Epilog laser cutter! To help you plan and get your projects started early and finished on time, we'll be publishing the timing of several of the contests scheduled during the first half of the year. Obviously, I think the best time to do a project is when you're most passionate about it, but I recognize everyone can benefit from a little extra motivation. Things are, of course, subject to change, but if you have even the slightest inkling of a green project, start now; especially since the real prize will be inspiring everyone that sees your work make their own lives a little bit greener.

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