This is what it should look like...
Start with the wide end of your necktie on the right, extending about 12 inches below the narrow end on the left.
Then cross the wide end over the narrow end.
Bring the wide end around and behind the narrow end.
Then bring the wide end up.
Pull the wide end through the loop and to the right.
Bring the wide end around the front, over the narrow end from right to left.
Again, bring the wide end up and through the loop.
Then, bring the wide end down through the knot in front.
And, using both hands tighten the knot carefully and drwa up to the collar.