How to Tell a Friend U Like Them!!!!!

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Intro: How to Tell a Friend U Like Them!!!!!

We've all come across this problem... You spend time with your *best mate of the opposite sex* and then you fall in love :P.. so sweet

Well telling her is actually quite easy.. Yes it is more easier said then done but with these simple tips your sure to catch a big one...

Step 1: Where Your at With This Girl/boy

Ok well the most obvious question is when u flirt does he/she flirt back with u?

If so its easy.. if they dont not so easy..

Now i know this instructable is about *how to tell a friend u like them* but the relationship and feeling must be strong in order for this to work

Body language: the main conversation tool is body language.. More of the conversation is through your body than your verbal communication... So be very conscious of the way each body position is posed.. Im not telling u to be worried about your body language because that looks funny :P

Ok so when your around this person you must use open and relaxed stances and expressions.

A nice calm face as the one shown below will prove to be worth while... Note the next few pictures
Palms slightly faceing outwards provide a more safer and open feeling then the crossed arms pictured afterwards.

Here are a few body language links
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/body.php - table of some of the bod language signs
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_language - explanation of body language

Step 2: Practice and Practise and No More Practice!!!!!!

Ok theres 2 options for practise

A. Practise heaps
B. Dont practise
C. Practise a little but not too muh.

C would be correct.. And yes i did say 2 answers i was tricking you :P

Ok so now you should have your body language skills on level. So now the verbal side.. Remember body language is most of the conversation not all of it.

Now most girls (depending on age and personal interests wont wont the romantic scene)

They'll want something they can easily say yes to and that sounds fun..
Now think about what your going to say but dont write it on your hand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1. it looks weird when your trying to talk to your girl but your talking to your hand!!!
2. It should mainly come from the heart!
3. You cant use half your body language when she doesnt see your face or your hands.. By looking down you show an embarrased or nervous expression...!!!!!

Ok so think about what your going to say (theres no certain way to ask a girl out because there all diffrent)

Ill stick some good ideas for dates towards the end..
Don't always just say hey wanna go out?
Try saying somehting like "hey you wanna go to a movie this weekend?"


Note the picture of the pimp face :P

Step 3: The Date!!!!!!!

Remember your body language.. After you ask her out its not over!!!!!

Some of the best places to go are:

The movies (most recommended first date!!! you dont have to talk as much because your watching a movie)
Bowling
Rock climbing (something sporty)

Now if your the man you gotta be thoughtful ok.. Girls dont really like the romantic scene but they enjoy the kindness..
For instance if your going to the movies you buy her ticket for her so you both can just walk in!!!!

Ok now most of this step is up to you!!! I cant say what your girlfriend/boyfriend will like you must do this yourself..

All i can say is the three steps for *Telling a Friend You Like Them*
A. Remember your body language its important and can be used powerfully
B. Practice your words a little but not too much
C. Choose a place your girl/boy will like. And BE KIND!!!!!!

Now go forth and use these skills wisely.. Feel free to chat and comment about your situation and ill help out ;P

And God Bless
Nato

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    The_Pixel_Sandvich

    2 years ago

    Ok so ive like this girl since last year and we are pretty good friends, sometimes she'll just randomly hug me ya know that sorta stuff. I do luke her a lot though and i dont know how to tell her beacause im too shy. What should i do?

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    gtypusiakThe_Pixel_Sandvich

    Reply 2 years ago

    I'm a girl so I thought I might be able to help. Start by complementing her. Don't make it awkward thought. Maybe next time you talk to her tell her that her hair is nice today or maybe complement her eyes. If she has insecurities complement her on them. Tell her that you see her as a great friend but also as more than a friend. Use her name a lot and look at her in the eyes. Show her you are confident but not pressuring her into a relationship.

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    NatalieS47The_Pixel_Sandvich

    Reply 2 years ago

    You should say to her "hey can we hang out tonight" go to where every and then write a note leave it on the table go to the bathroom she will probably look at the note and when you get back from the bathroom she give you the answer and if she says no ask her if you guys can still be friends and this will help with any on!

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    NatalieS47The_Pixel_Sandvich

    Reply 2 years ago

    You should say to her "hey can we hang out tonight" go to where every and then write a note leave it on the table go to the bathroom she will probably look at the note and when you get back from the bathroom she give you the answer and if she says no ask her if you guys can still be friends and this will help with any on!

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    NatalieS47

    2 years ago

    My friend told me that his friend likes me and i like him back then my friend texted like 3 days later and said that my crush likes my friend to please help what do I do.

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    Ryley16

    2 years ago

    I herd from my friend when u took a photo to the the girl I like of him and me she said hey to me

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    Julianth

    2 years ago

    I have liked a girl for three years and when u get near her I can't say anything to her I mean she means the world to me I need help telling her how I really feel please help

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    ElizabethS63

    2 years ago

    s me and my friend have been friends for 8 years but 2 years ago we had a thing it wasnt dating we just did some stuff hung out had some sleep overs meen while we were only 11 but i still like him but idk if he likes me help please

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    Alka09

    2 years ago

    I like a girl but I don't know how to tell her it, can someone please help me please

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    promise_momo19

    2 years ago

    I like a girl I don't how to tell her.

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    Plz

    3 years ago

    I'm a guy and I need some help I like a girl that I have been friends with for about 4 years and I don't know if I should ask her out or not we get on really well and she has asked me before if I like anyone so I just said no to not complicate things but it just made it worse someone please help

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    Bopper333

    3 years ago

    Ive asked my ex girlfriend to go out for the day as friends and she as agreed to.Yes I still like her and coz shes agreed im now wondering wether the feelings mutual.I havent seen her or contacted her in over 10 months

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    Ditsy The DeerD

    Reply 3 years ago on Introduction

    Does your best friend know you like him? If so, you shouldn't be friends with her. A true friend would never do that. Also, you should just politely ask him if he likes you. It won't be too hard.