Getting Started with Electronics
and here is also a top view with the arduino on the mini pro in the wirght orentation
You say, that the good way is like the picture in this comment. But I have looked it up on google and every one say to do it lik i have done and it hase also never failed with programming.
ardiuno pro mini programer tool
ARDUINO AIRSOFT TIME BOMB GAME
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I have made it and it works perfect. but i want to ad a game where both teams had to arm the bomb with a password but have some one did this already??