Sorry for long question: I'm 15, going on 16. two, maybe three weeks back a couple of my mates met this girl. Eventually one of them started dating her, whilst the other talks to her regularly. As of yet, I've only ever met this girl once which was by accident and I didn't really say anything because I was with the mate who talks to her regularly on BBM, and he was saying everything. I've never actually been invited to meet her and some of her friends, yet my best friend has which I found slightly disheartening. I'm feeling kind of .. well .. left out, because whenever we walk home from school they go on as if they're purposely trying to make me jealous. I don't wanna ask if I can come with them to meet her and her mates, but I do wanna come with them somehow. This isn't a case of me fancying her, I just feel as if they're purposely leaving me out of things. I guess my question is how can I subtly get myself 'in' with their crowd without outright asking? P.S. I know it doesn't sound that big, I just more or less need some advice P.S.P.S The friend that talks to this girl regularly, he gets my bus as we go to get food for lunchtime. I guess he generally decides where the group goes on a whole. No heart felt talks or anything, but if you could just give me some desperately needed advice, I'd be really grateful!
Posted by guitaro 6 years ago | last reply 6 years ago