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What's been bugging you? Answered

Is there something that has been on your mind for a while. Something that is bothering you to death? Let us know before your brain explodes!



6 years ago

My brain bothers me.

PEOPLE that attempt to invalidate EVERYTHING I have experienced, and suffered over the years.

Forget about them and live life by your own standards.


(sort it out man)

I can't be totally alone though Lemonie, and me being me can isolate me from most people. So I can't forget all of them, especially those I "thought" I was getting close to as friends.

Criticism I can take, but denial of my past and present is just way too much for me. 

I'm burning my past; it's going on the fire*. That's because life is about today, and friends are really no more than people that you trust.


*collections of various bits of paper and card.

And when that trust is broken.....and what is is shaken up and shaken down, when you wonder if anyone will ever understand.....I turn to those who live what I do, feel what I do, have been through what I have been through. Those that deny me a opportunity to be me by trying to make me something else can take a flying leap.....but I suppose that is what you mean :-) It just isn't fun to have those you trused turn on you and tell you you are not yourself. It feels like betrayal.

Your trust was misplaced then.
No one can assert that another person is not themselves, but perhaps you tried (and failed) to be someone else?


I have finally found the Missing link, that ties together all the weirdness of my past, and present....all the social problems, all the things that make me who I am, as I have known myself for the past 50+ years......for another person to say that I am not any of that bothers me.....but it shouldn't reallly. 
There are always going to be people that believe they see others more clearly then the other sees themselves.  It is just disturbing to me because I have never MET this person before. Just some exchanges on line. 

Still, I have to get back to remembering that I can't "bring the entire human race" up to speed (those that wish to still believe in flat earths and false moon landings, etc). In fact, I can not bring a single person into the light of enlightenment if they do not wish to understand.

Batting things around like this helps me clear my head - :-)   TY

Oh, please, please tell me you were wearing a faded purple kaftan , sandals and a macramé belt when you typed that, possibly within sniffing distance of a couple of joss-sticks!

No, blue Atari T-shirt, jeans.
It's been good, I've got more space in my house and other personal benefits.


Twilight has ruined everything

Lady gaga has ruined everything

Justin Beiber has ruined everything

Men have no peace.

Excuse me? As long As we have lord of the rings movies will survive. As long as we have Yui, Sawa and Yuko Ogura music will survive.

Absolutely, The Hobbit is coming out next year, which makes me happy. :)

A darn mosquito! >:-(

It's kind of a mute point after the thing has bitten you though.

Well, it may make you feel better if you smash it and blood splatters! Hee hee! Anyways, it's payback to the little booger!

You know for someone with such a cheery profile picture you sure have an evil mind?

Yeah, she's already paid you for the bite (the poison injects makes it itch for so long afterwards)...

Yeah, itchiness! I haven't been bit by a mosquito in who know how long!

Sounds like you need to get out more :-)

Well, living in Alaska you really don't get bit by mosquitos in the winter! ;P

Oh ok, when you said "who knows how long" I thought you meant "years" :-) Yeah, we don't get them in the winter here either.

Ok! :D Most places don't! (Thankfully)

Now I'm annoyed by not being able to find the darken tool on Photoshop. >:-(

Is that a mosquito which prevents water from flowing freely?

Font change got me :-( It looked like you wrote "A dam mosquito," not "A darn mosquito".

Quite the reservoir of replies, you've got there!

Also the number of K'nex groups there are. :P

It appears to be impossible to get the authorised service agent to repair a Yamaha RXV800 receiver/amplifier without having to involve the consumer protection office. INSERT EXPLETIVE HERE!!!

dam miqutos make me made. hulk go to walmart to buy zappers.zap zap. dam i zapped my self!!

A TV report (in Australia) about the decision by a large supermarket chain NOT to sell meat that was "with added hormones" was followed by a spokesperson saying "this decision could decimate the meat industry in Australia". This really bugged me because I for one am glad. Who wants added hormones in there meat? Not Me.

Charity shops: Over the last few years there has been a major shift in the approach to charity by organisations such as Red Cross, St. Vincents etc. The goods on sale in their charity shops were donated items (free) and were sold at a cheap price to those who couldn't affort to buy in mainstream shops. Now they have a policy of selling to anyone at the highest price they can get, this money goes into the pool of financial resources and is distributed through their other (large) projects. If you are a person in need, but outside the "charity" system you have no access to "cheap" items and clothing. The other day I was in a charity shop when a distressed person came in. She said, she only had 50cents to buy a sweater, there reply to her was that the cheapest they had was $4 and sent her away. The items are donated (second hand) and she was willing to pay what she had. I am upset by this and can't understand people who work in a charity not having any true charity.

. Find out when the next board meeting is and present your case. Don't expect a positive response (in my experience, these organizations aren't exactly open to outside suggestions), but it's about all you can do. When you do find a place that "acts right", support them with your time and money.

This is horrid! Charity shops are for people in need! URg! This should be stopped!

Technology is moving to dang fast lets all slow down!!

Brian M Bernal