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Who Does Well Around Girls? Answered

Who doesn't have trouble around the opisite gender? Who adores the females? Who can simply go up to a girl and have a decent conversation with them without choking or talking giberish? Who finds themselves decent looking for girls to like? Most embarresing situation with a girl? general questions. I personally am ok (and mildly ok) when they ask me a question or need me to help them. I have never started conversations with them but recently a girl that i really have fancied has tried to talk to about tv shows with me out of the blue. :D:D:D:D :P:P:P:P:P I am well chuffed about that. Thankfully i have not yet talked giberish to a girl. yay! I find myself decent looking for girls for me to like and perhaps attractive for them :P. My most embarresing situation with a girl was accidently slammin a door into her face because i did not know she was there. oops lol. Base your posts like that. : P And yes i do know i am curious! Btw susposed to be pic of girls : / heh heh?

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Wasagi

10 years ago

Dude i'm really confused!! there's this girl who liked me last year, and she might still like me, the only problem is that she goes to a private school this year and none of her friends go to my school. I like her, but i never get to see her anymore, and none of my friends can help. HELP!

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WasagiWasagi

Reply 10 years ago

Good News! through soome weird chain of events, she's going to my school next year! Yay!

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Mr. Rig ItWasagi

Reply 10 years ago

Call her and tell her hello,or send and email or text message. Just be friendly.

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WasagiMr. Rig It

Reply 10 years ago

The only prob is that I don't know her e-mail, and her friends aren't too thrilled about me..

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Mr. Rig ItWasagi

Reply 10 years ago

Well there has to be someway to get her a message and ask her to call you. If not then you may have to move on the the next lucky lady.

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WasagiMr. Rig It

Reply 10 years ago

Yeah.. but Most of her freinds (most somewhat good-looking) kinda have grudge against me...

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WasagiKentsOkay

Reply 10 years ago

Well, her best friend kind of started it, way back in fourth grade...

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Mr. Rig ItWasagi

Reply 10 years ago

Hmmm... have you wronged them in some way? If so apologize. What is the grudge about?

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WasagiMr. Rig It

Reply 10 years ago

It's complicated, do you want the full story or the abridged version, working on the apologizing thing, complicated seeing as they don't go to the same school as me...

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Baron AMr. Rig It

Reply 10 years ago

Thank you Mr .Rig! You are very good on this topic!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You give the peole good advice about thir probs!! You can be a MOD if you want eh..? BTW how can i bring up the topic about Msn because i want to ask that girl whats your Msn adress.

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Mr. Rig ItBaron A

Reply 10 years ago

You are very welcome, thanks for the complement.

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Baron AMr. Rig It

Reply 10 years ago

its not i will send you a pm. -still depressed-

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Baron AMr. Rig It

Reply 10 years ago

Anytime. Well tomorrow last period ive got her in computer class.Ill tell you if it went well! :) Also lastime in cp class she asked for my help.........when she normally doesn't. I don't no what brought it on all of a sudeen weve known each other for 3 years now in the same High School.

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Metal4GodBaron A

Reply 10 years ago

HOW OLD ARE YOU!?!?!?!? and WHAT GRADE!

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whatsisfaceBaron A

Reply 10 years ago

Try giving her yours first, then she'll talk to you if she wants to. Otherwise, still give her yours, and then she may feel obliged to give you hers.

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Mr. Rig Itwhatsisface

Reply 10 years ago

I think first that I would ask her if she uses it a lot or at all. I agree that is a good idea, but you need a reason to ask her hmm... perhaps you can ask her if she could be available if you need help with homework from the class you share and could you email her or message her if you need help? Take it nice and slow and remember don't rush everything.

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lowpro

10 years ago

They're generally just as nervous as you are.

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MuffinManIsHere

10 years ago

Just be yourself and confidant in your own skin...chessey...hey, but it works. Oh and I met a really good friend because he smack me in the face with a door...a couple time...poorly placed door that pushes out.

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kaseyraex3MuffinManIsHere

Reply 10 years ago

i said the same thing....does it mean something different when it comes from a guy?

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kaseyraex3

10 years ago

I'm sorry but as a girl, i find this topic very interesting to see it from a guys perspective. and if you want a girls advice, which a bet half of you don't.....just be confidant :)

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Labot2001kaseyraex3

Reply 10 years ago

just be confidant

easier said then done though, aint it? *sigh*

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Goodhartkaseyraex3

Reply 10 years ago

confidence comes from practice. So, in practice, one could approach those that do not make them very nervous (some less interesting for whatever reasons) and just start a conversation. After awhile it will become second nature (I am not as nervous as I was 30+ years ago, but I still never know "what" to talk about.

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Labot2001Goodhart

Reply 10 years ago

hence the "practicing pickup lines in the mirror" approach re-enacted in many a movie, right?

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GoodhartLabot2001

Reply 10 years ago

That never helped me much. Only real-life practice helped. That was why I spoke of speaking with girls you wouldn't want to date, but just to befriend and find your comfort / confidence level . That works.

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killerjackalope

10 years ago

I'm not nervous around girls, generally I tend to make guys mad though, when I'm speaking to any girl even a friend I'm accused of flirting hance I end up being hated by my girl-friend's boyfriends... I can go up to a girl and have a decent conversation but gibberish comes in because I joke alot and sometimes gibberish is part of the joke... Alot of the time Ummm I find decent girls to like and be liked by (if that makes sense) but have a bad habit of getting crazies aswell, need i refer to the Ex instructable, I think it's because most of the time I'm not in a relationship and not looking just galavanting or flying my kite (as said by people I know, galavanting means walking about in rambling kind of way usually) That and living in belfast means carzy people are rife, and some are pretty too... I think the worst embarassing situation I've ever had involving girls was whe I was in the bar, I chatted a girl up and we ended up 'making out'( I even americanized there) a bit, she orders a drink, I go outside for a smoke and as I walk out the door a guy takes a swing at me, we fight for a while and he ends up in a heap on the pavement, I go back in to the bar, girl goes 'what happened to you?' I tell her and she goes out to see If the guy is ok (because shes a girl who doesn't like violence) she comes back shouting 'you just kicked the shit out of my boyfriend!', while Im shouting 'you have a boyfriend?!?!' one of my ex's appears giving me that looked that just says 'you're fucked now, I'll enjoy watching this' and after 20minutes of drama the girl boyfriend and I are left at the bar telling the bar tender to go get alot of whiskey... In the end we went on to a club and both of us pulled girls.... Having a whole bar staring at you in audacity is really quite bad... I have humped our national flag across a stage in front of 500 people but that was more embarassing... I hope your curiosity doesn't get out of hand... Or that too many girls find this, you'll have a feminist flame war on your hands lol

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Baron Akillerjackalope

Reply 10 years ago

Humped. LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG so embarresin. cool your british?

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killerjackalopeBaron A

Reply 10 years ago

yeah im in northern ireland... It was bad in the sense that there was nothing else to go wrong... I mean I would normally move to the back bar when the wrong ex arrives etc because she can't bother me as much (the bartenders all know me and before the smoking ban I would come in with friends and take it over. What's really odd is the amount of time a girl will neglact to mention her boyfriend, c'mon she must have known he was coming, what was the plan, same thing happened last week but without the fiasco... On the upside I never seem to be lonely, even if it's war it's company lol

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Baron Akillerjackalope

Reply 10 years ago

Lol - neglect to mention her boyfriend. I bet they think how far they can get with you , before you find out shes in a relationship..... Girls are so minipulative!

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killerjackalopeBaron A

Reply 10 years ago

Lol I very much doubt she had that big a plan, she was blonde lol no really alot of girls are manipulative but when they get older they tend to stop playing games as much, I'm seventeen and so games are still played alot, the best actual relationship i had was with a girl whos now 20, It all worked becasue we never said we're going out (it's like a nonpluss term) and because we met eashother after awful relationships...

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Doctor What

10 years ago

I don't really have a problem around girls. It's other guys. They make me nervous. And I don't like touching them, or getting within a couple feet or so. When I went to church with my mom, I couldn't shake the pastors hand. Is that bad??

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Labot2001Doctor What

Reply 10 years ago

i'm with you. well, sorta. i mean, i don't have a problem around girls at all, but i try to avoid most guys, especially at my school, at least. most of them are, er, pervs i guess, and mostly plain idiots. thats my humble opinion, of course. and i guess some of the girls are like that too, but not as much. so i tend to hang with them more. hmm, most embarrassing experience with a girl, thats tough. tell the truth, im actually pretty hard to get embarrassed. if i think of something, i'll post.

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Baron ALabot2001

Reply 10 years ago

Totally agree wid ya dude ....about the perv bit..... They do pervy things to da girls n da girls don't mind.

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Labot2001Baron A

Reply 10 years ago

EXACTLY!!! and THAT's what bugs me. the girls don't care! not at all!

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Baron ALabot2001

Reply 10 years ago

The things that bugs me is when they see through the girls shirt and pinch the bra to snap it back foward. The girls don't seem to give a toss they just giggle. Do you got to a school in Britian ? Because your school is sounding alot like the schools around england.

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Labot2001Baron A

Reply 10 years ago

lol, i go to school in the exact OPPOSITE of Britian, the SOUTH. Georgia, to be exact

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Baron ALabot2001

Reply 10 years ago

lol, girls would never be understood doya agree?