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how can i be sexy for him? Answered

what are the little extra things guys like?


 Can you be sexy for him?

Guys aren't too picky in that regard.  Just take off your clothes, and you should be fine.  

extra things, taking one's kit off I think is a known.


 Of course it's a known.  But to be perfectly honest, would you be dissatisfied with a woman if she just took her clothes off, and did no foreplay?

Very... Then again I am a great believer in playfulness and not being too serious in bed... Though apparently being too silly is considered a slappable faux pas... 

I recommend these books:

“How To Be A Great Lover - Techniques that Will Blow His Mind” by Lou Paget
“Oral Caress” by Robert W. Birch
“The Sexercise Book” by Kym Herrin and Richard Benyo
“Social Dance - Steps to Success” by Judy Patterson Wright
“The Art Of Sensual Massage” by Gordon Inkeles and Murray Todris
“The Looks Men Love” by Vincent Roppatte and Sherry Suib Cohen

Eye contact and smile!  We are simple creatures really.


8 years ago

Keep some of yourself 'back'. Let him guess at some things about you.

Where there is no intrigue for a man, he can lose interest.

Above all though, be natural. Don't get locked into an image of what you think sexy should be. You can be sexy;-you can't behave sexy.

Good luck!

Seriously, talk to other girls. They know.
(On this site you're mostly going to get opinions from men, many of them married with children)


Smile at him and mean it.

Works for most blokes.

spice up ur love life with chills

Look him in the eye.  Most girls don't look their guy in the eyes enough.  Couple that with a real smile and you make his brain create another good hormone.  Not the usual hormone but one that tells him to like you.


8 years ago