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how doo you make a fifth grader like you? Answered

my name is kamila and i like this boy and he has a girlfriend but he is going with me to the movies.how do i get him to like me.



if your meant to be it will happen. but if it doesn't look for someone else I see that this question is pretty old so I hope it worked out

Many years ago, there was a book written, titled How to Win Friends and Influence People.  In fact this is so well known, that someone went to the trouble of writing a Wikipedia article that summarizes some of this book's basic premises.  The article is here:

Because you are specifically interested in making someone like you, I have cut-and-pasted the section titled "six ways to make people like you"

Six Ways to Make People Like You
  1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
  2. Smile.
  3. Remember that a person's name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
  4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
  5. Talk in terms of the other person's interest.
  6. Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.
By the way, these techniques actually work, but of course the hard part is faking sincerity

Well that's oversimplification.  I guess what I am saying is that if you apply these techniques too strongly, they wind up, paradoxically,  looking insincere.

As  a simple example,  a smile looks nice, but someone there is something very strange about a person who is smiling all the time.  In fact someone who is smiling all the time, may look untrustworthy.  It looks like he or she is up to something, or knows something you don't, or maybe he or she is insane...

Anyway, I am sorry human communication is so strange, but you'll probably get used to it after a while. 


If he already has a girlfriend, I think you're looking at an ordinary friendship.

Value that instead of looking for something else, or you could easily spoil what you already have.

+1... there is no way to "make" someone like you. If nothing else, just be yourself and be a friend. If you aren't being yourself, then you will never know if he likes the real you.