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how to be a good wife???? Answered

plz give some suggetions for being a good wife

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This can be a very hard Q. I like what EMIT has to say too. He doesn't beat you does he ? If he does don't stay. Find a way out. I always heard that, "The way to a mans heart is through his stomach." I think though being supportive goes a long way because, being a man myself, we are a lot like children. We or I like to reassured sometimes a lot.

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harias

9 years ago

Just be sincere and honest to your husband. Even better if you think about the couple as one.

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canida

9 years ago

1. Be a good person. 2. Follow Kiteman's advice on collaborating to create a good couple.

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emit

9 years ago

Go to the Bible, Proverbs Chapter 31

My wife wonders this same question on a regular basis- and the answer is always the same- when she talks to me rather than wonder what I am thinking she discovers that what I think or feel is very different that what she thought I was thinking or feeling. Keep the communication flowing and try to remember that husbands are NOT complex creatures- straight forward communication helps a lot.

If you have to ask 'How to be a good wife' then you missed on the question 'how to pick a good husband'. Like Kiteman said, marriage is about both people, one of them can't make it work. Your screen name may be biasing me, but being a 'good' wife goes back to what both of you expected at the beginning (whether you realized it or not) and how both of you change over time. It's not an easy list that you can read, it's something you find out along the way.

Be supportive. Expect support back. Be a team. Keep some independance. In truth, there is no such thing as "a good wife". There is, rather "a good couple" - both of you need to put in the effort to make the marriage work. If you feel that you are not doing something right, that you have to put in the effort, then talk to him.