Books. There's sume really good Lit. out there with tips, tricks, pix and handy pointers. Go book shopping together and let HER pick out what peeks her interest, then read over it and try stuff out. Don't have sex for a month...just flirt and tantilize briefly and then at the end of the month love it up! All the sexual tension & build up could just be the thing you need!? Have fun! Laugh at the things that don't work and take joy in the things that do (then remember what it was & write it down!) Love making shouldn't be a chore, it should be an experience!