0jester_5123 8 years ago ReplyUpvotetheir right, if were, gonna help, we gotta have more info!, but ill tell you what i think... first off, think of your origional relationship you had in the first place.ask yourself " hey, did I ACTUALLY care for this individual, or is this emotions out of wack because of inexperience, the breakup itself, guilt, pity, whatever" odds are, if you didnt answer yes to the first part, the breakup is the best thing for the both of you. if you said yes: did they REALLY care about you, were they using you, did they just not care, etc. if you said yes to the first part again, then you should look at the actual cause of the breakup.if you answered no, just let them go and move on, because that relationship wasnt right for you and your supposed to wait for someone else. if he did something that caused the breakup, look at it and try to understand it, maybe why he did it or what he was thinking at the time. its entirely possible that he didnt mean to do anything to cause that, and that he just didnt think it was a big deal whatever it was. guys tend to do that sometimes. i know, cuz ive done it. and like others have said, if it was you who caused the breakup, think about what happened. did you overreact? did you have just cause to break up with him? you may have overreacted to something he did or said and took it a way he didnt mean.entirely possible. and of course,ITS VERY POSSIBLE that it was really a combination of you and him both being wrong or blowing things out of preportions, in which case, do a combination of the above.id not suggest begging, because it makes you seem desperate, and no guy truly likes a girl who has desperation in her heart.try to talk to him about what happened and if you two are meant to be, then you'll be, if not, it will pass and you will find someone else. sorry it took so much space, i just got alot to say on this matter...lol.