How to Spread Kindness

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Introduction: How to Spread Kindness

About: I like to make things.

In an effort to spread a little more kindness, I created a public art project, called the compliment project, that anyone with access to a printer and tape can participate in. Within a week of starting the project it spread internationally and was featured in The New York Times, ABC News, and San Francisco Chronicle. People around the world have been sharing images of the posters via the hashtag #thecomplimentproject on Instagram and Twitter.

In this instructable, I will explain what the compliment project is, how to participate in it, and other ways to spread kindness in your community.

Because we can all use a few more hugs and smiles now (and always).

Step 1: What Is the Compliment Project?

Inspired by those posters that advertise baby sitters or piano lessons and are taped on street poles with paper slip phone numbers at the bottom that you can tear off and take with you, I created compliment posters with the same structure.

The compliments include:

Your smile is beautiful.

You are perfect as you are.

Our world is better because you are in it.

You light up the room.

The compliment is written in large text in the top 3/4 of the page and then repeated on the small paper slips below. Passerby are encourage to tear off the slips and share them with friends. The posters don't feature any emails, phone numbers or websites. The only thing they do have to identify them with the project is the hashtag #thecomplimentproject.

After designing the posters, I printed 1,000 at a local copy shop and invited my friends to join me over the course of the week posting the compliments around San Francisco.

Step 2: How to Participate and Spread Kindness in Your Own Community

The reaction was overwhelmingly positive, so I created a website thecomplimentproject.org where anyone can download and print the posters for their own communities. In addition to being available in English, you can also download the posters in Spanish, French, Turkish, Portuguese and Italian. I also attached all of these posters to this instructable step!

If your language is not available, please reach out to me by commenting on this instructable or sending me a PM - if you can help translate, I can create the posters in your language!

Step 3: Other Ways to Spread Kindess

There are so many ways to spread kindness in your community!

One of my favorites is volunteering. The website VolunteerMatch.org can help connect you to volunteer opportunities in your area based on your specific interests. I'm also a big fan of libraries, which tend to have plenty of volunteer opportunities from teaching youth how to read and write to helping people prepare resumes and cover letters. Whatever you are passionate about there is likely to be a volunteer opportunity right up your alley!

The same goes for donating to local charities! The website CharityNavigator.org is another great resource.

Getting involved in local government is also a great way to make an impact. Just by attending town halls, you can get a better sense of what programs and initiatives are happening in your area, and which ones you can get more involved in. If there is an issue you are passionate about, you can also contact your representative - to find your local representative, here is a handy website.

I'd love to hear more ideas of how to spread kindness in the comment section so I can add them to this step!

Above all, small things like smiling at a stranger, being there for your friends and family, or giving an extra big tip at your favorite restaurant or coffee shop can have a huge impact. Once a ripple of kindness starts, you never know where it will end. :)

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    73 Comments

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    Alex Ribeiro
    Alex Ribeiro

    4 years ago

    Hey, I just loved it but [Brazilian] Portuguese version needs a little tweak, let me help:

    Text:

    Aceite um elogio! Você merece.
    Espalhe a gentileza, leve para um amigo(a) também.
    #thecomplimentproject

    1) Você é um raio de luz num dia nublado.

    2) Você traz alegria àqueles à sua volta.

    3) O teu sorriso é lindo. (It's correct)

    4) Nosso mundo é melhor porque você está nele.

    5) Você leva alegria onde quer que vá.

    Spread the love.

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    zposner
    zposner

    4 years ago

    it would be funny to make ones that were funny

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    21jthayne
    21jthayne

    4 years ago

    I know that i would sure like it if I was walking down the street and I saw a compliment that was just for me.

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    Anirudh Ralhan
    Anirudh Ralhan

    4 years ago

    That is a really creative and amazing idea. I would love to help you with translations in hindi. Let me know of the text you want me to translate.

    I also have another idea you could use, 'Why not use Google translate for translations??' It has many languages and would be really quick .... Won't it??

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    silkier
    silkier

    Reply 4 years ago

    My dear friend, Have you used Google Translate much?

    If you have you would know that you may well end up saying "you switch on my lamp" in Swahili or "the world is good if go you in" in Azerbaijani.

    Always check with a native speaker or you may find yourself in a sticky situation!

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    Captain Tight-Pants
    Captain Tight-Pants

    Reply 4 years ago

    In all fairness if I saw a sign that said "You switch on my lamp" I would sure smile and have a better day :)

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    silkier
    silkier

    Reply 4 years ago

    Ah, but do you speak Swahili?

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    MikB
    MikB

    Reply 4 years ago

    I have a Hungarian phrasebook -- would that help? It's not entirely accurate ... occasional problems with hovercraft and eels :)

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    silkier
    silkier

    Reply 4 years ago

    In the same sentence?

    The mind boggles.

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    MikB
    MikB

    Reply 4 years ago

    Nem fogok vásárolni ezt a rekordot. Ez karcos

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    silkier
    silkier

    Reply 4 years ago

    Was it a good record though?

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    ned103
    ned103

    Reply 4 years ago

    Google Translate and other online translators only Transliterate. They don't actually translate.

    If you're not sure what transliterate means, it means to convert from one language to another word for word or letter for letter. Like converting English words into French but in the same order as the English sentence. Doesn't always make sense in other languages.

    If you forget your hat on a train and ask someone who is still on the train to throw your hat to you in French, it's transliterated into English as "Throw me off the train my hat."

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    NebulaIX
    NebulaIX

    Reply 4 years ago

    "Throw me off the train..." not a good idea to say to someone...

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    bagshotrow
    bagshotrow

    Reply 4 years ago

    A lot of older translation utilities used to work this way, but Google Translate, at least, actually does translate. They use crowdsourcing to correct awkward phrasing, too

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    FrenchDavid50.
    FrenchDavid50.

    4 years ago

    This is amazing! This inspired me to go through with a plan I've had for a while now: Put post-it notes with inspirational messages on bathroom mirrors in my school.

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    JEDENSMORE
    JEDENSMORE

    4 years ago

    Thanks For your effort to better your community.

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    IdoV
    IdoV

    4 years ago

    Hey gals great idea, I can help translate to hebrew if you want.

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    digamma101
    digamma101

    4 years ago

    I don't care what others are saying, this is terrific. Keep it up. I feel uplifted just reading about your project.