I was in the Navy for 8 1/2 years and worked as a shipboard electrician. I also worked on submarines, a tug boat, and with the Coast Guard on drug running. I met my husband Marcus, of 17 years, in Guantanamo Bay, Cuba. We have 3 girls- Courtney 25- my multi-tattoed and holey child. She adds color and life to all in her own quiet way. I had the gift and privilege of being present during the birth of her daughter River Brianna, in Dec 2008. Erin 22, who's the mom of my little diva granddaug…