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What is love??!?!?! Answered

I have liked (and been liked) by the same girl for over 6 years. I am currently in 7th grade. I am just confused if I am actually in love or not. I don't really know how to tell, is the problem. And anyway, am I to young to pass judjement? please help!

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avocadostains
avocadostains

6 years ago

Love is a romantic attraction that you have for another person stronger than towards any other person in the world. A romantic attraction so strong that you are not romantically attracted to anyone else. That is true love. Anything less than that is merely a partnership.

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ilpug
ilpug

Reply 9 years ago

So when I saw this, I immediately went here to post exactly that.

Beat me to it.

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jessyratfink
jessyratfink

13 years ago

I was going to post a video of my cat and I to prove what love is, but that might look bad without any explanation. :P The only advice I can give you is to not change your whole life for someone. Especially not at your age. Don't get into a long distance relationship, for example, or make yourself fit into the mold of what that person wants. I've done both things and those relationships never work. I have a trail of bad boyfriends, haha. I can't tell you what love feels like, though. I think it's different for everyone!

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paperboat101
paperboat101

Reply 10 years ago

for me its that i cant stop thinking about her and i dream about her every night. wen im talking to her or txtin her i feel happy and wen im not talking to her or txtin her i get kinda sad or lonely...

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Reply 13 years ago

I was going to post a video of my cat and I to prove what love is, but that might look bad without any explanation.

Cough, splutter, rattle of peanut M&Ms off monitor

Damn, I really did watch too much Carry On as a child... Jessy, why do you keep doing this to me?

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jessyratfink
jessyratfink

Reply 13 years ago

Hahaha, Carry On is a comedy show, right? But I've never seen it. I'm not sure what I'm doing but I like the crazy reactions!

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Reply 13 years ago

Carry On Sergeant, Carry On Matron, Carry On Camping, Carry On Up the Khyber... it's a huge list of British movies full of double entendres and slightly bawdy slapstick. It warped shaped the minds of whole generations.

Plus all the camp jokes in Are You Being Served?

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 13 years ago

Ah yes, I still like to watch the PBS reruns of Are You Being Served?

Last of the Summer Wine

Red Dwarf

etc.

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jessyratfink
jessyratfink

Reply 13 years ago

Oh dear. I can only imagine what you were thinking, if that's the case. WE NEVER GET PAST FIRST BASE!

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Reply 13 years ago

It's all to do with one of the alternative names for pet cats.

You know, the Gallore one...

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whatsisface
whatsisface

Reply 13 years ago

Ok, at first it was innuendo, but now you've jumped in a rather large hole and decided in your infinite wisdom to bury yourself ;-)

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whatsisface
whatsisface

Reply 13 years ago

R.I.P. John Inman, a true British institution in his own right. On the other hand, nothing's the matter with me, Jack. I'm alright.

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Reply 13 years ago

... I'm Alright Jack ...

Maybe, but Peter Sellers is dead as well :-(

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Sunbanks
Sunbanks

13 years ago

If you have known someone for that long then you best be cautious. I asked a guy(I'm a girl) out last year that I have known since third grade and he said no. It messed up our relationship. So be careful.... Also a different guy asked me out last year and said mean things just because I said no.

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 13 years ago

Also a different guy asked me out last year and said mean things just because I said no.

Well, at least you found out HIS attitude early on. That's a good thing.

I would say that it is best to put off a "serious relationship" (beyond a close friendship) until at very least, high school or thereabouts. One can never tell for sure just where the other person is at, and it can put questions in the mind of the other person.

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Sunbanks
Sunbanks

Reply 13 years ago

Yeah and als I have known him for years. We grew up together. It doesn't really work out if that person was/is a good friend.

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 13 years ago

???

The only relationships the ever worked for me, romantic or otherwise, were those based on "solid" friendships. Maybe it is different in the "world of the young". *shrug*

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Sunbanks
Sunbanks

Reply 13 years ago

Maybe it depends on the person. Also the guy I asked out saud I pushed him in a toilet....

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 13 years ago

LOL, sorry for laughing....but I can just see this "guy" telling his friends "she pushed me in the toilet.....and held my head under too" He would never live that one down, for sure LOL sorry. I have this warped imagination. Yeah, I guess it does depend on the person, and since we are all a little different.....there is no set "way" that works for everyone all the time.

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Sunbanks
Sunbanks

Reply 13 years ago

LOL don't wirry, I started laughing when I ssaw your post. I never did push him in the toilet...

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Sunbanks
Sunbanks

Reply 13 years ago

UGH! I have a problem with U,I, and O's when I am typing. I try not to look at the keys and forget to read over what I typed.

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 13 years ago

Well, one way to help your typing is to watch the screen where the letters are coming up, instead of the keyboard. That way you don't have to "remember to double check" but will see the mistake right away.

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Sunbanks
Sunbanks

Reply 13 years ago

Yeah

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Punkguyta
Punkguyta

13 years ago

Gee guys, should I give him the talk? -Punk

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gotja
gotja

Reply 13 years ago

cough couht *sex* cough cough
oops did i say sex i ment hex (will smith-im going on to a party and ill practis safe hex!)

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killerk2
killerk2

Reply 13 years ago

lol i saw that episode, the halloween one wit scorpius right

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gotja
gotja

Reply 13 years ago

yep

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killerk2
killerk2

Reply 13 years ago

carlton your hair, what kind of dream were you have mister...............................................................................i love quoting that show

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gotja
gotja

Reply 13 years ago

lol will i want you outa this house buy night

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killerk2
killerk2

Reply 13 years ago

but uncle phil, dont tell me you believe this scrumpulous guy

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gotja
gotja

Reply 13 years ago

o yea also if you realy want to learn what love is listen to this song "what is love?"

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Pat Sowers
Pat Sowers

Reply 13 years ago

always good to practis safe hex! :)

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Medrephobic
Medrephobic

Reply 13 years ago

I'll pass, thanks.

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teaaddict314
teaaddict314

13 years ago



your not the only one wondering =)
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teaaddict314
teaaddict314

Reply 13 years ago

but seriously your too young for love

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Oily Seldon
Oily Seldon

13 years ago

Ok, this may seem inappropriate but webcomic once said "If you can picture the girl doing a dump, and then want to have sex with them, then that's love..." :D But your a young'en so this may not apply to you

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Reply 13 years ago

If you can picture the girl doing a dump, and then want to have sex with them

...then there are whole chunks of the internet just waiting for you!

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Danny
Danny

Reply 13 years ago

Haha my new msn pm!

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 13 years ago

Hehe, funny, but seriously, the kid's in 7th grade, we don't need to make him a visual surfer just yet...

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 13 years ago

I would add to: "If you can picture the girl doing a dump, and then want to have sex with them,
then that's love..."

OR you can keep from laughing.....it may be love.

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killerk2
killerk2

13 years ago

wow, you knew her for a long time