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Fallen out With a Friend Answered

I am very angry and kind of depressed now.....

I have fallen out with a friend, and i am pissed off.

( this is at dinnertime - on the school playground BTW)

It all started when i called him ( stuart) something ( daddy's little wh*re) as a joke. I always tease him and he just puches me , and then we carry on as normal. But i realised i went too far then, ( it was un-intentional; like a spur of the moment how i always tease him). I aploigised twice then, but then he chased me - he is very fast and this time he had a very angry look on his face! I quickly ran in a cicle and then ran straight outa the school gates for dinner- to avoid beatings.

When i returned to school on the same day, I tried to avoid him incase i get hit, but i couldn't since my best friend hangs out with him, and i wanted to talk to him. So when walked up i imediatly got chased off ( but i was able to say sorry twice again). So next break i walked up again, But i got pushed, then kicked very hard on my arse by stuart. Then i got chased again and got puched twice. I decide to avoid him and ,my other friend totally for the remaining lessons.

(TODAY), I normally walk with him too school and back form school. So when morning came, i got ready and left the house. I spotted him ( stuart) behind me and decided to carry on walking - too see what he would do..... Once he caught up he walked off! ahead leaving me behind! ( I thought the guy would off cooled down by now). Once i caught up with him i said:

" hello. Are you still in a mood with me?"

Stuart: " fuck off , i don't wanna walk with you, so get lost"

Me: " why man? please, i said sorry lots of times...come on!"

stuart : " Fuck off "

I just realised he was angry and then just carried on walking to school away from him. I avoided him for most of the day, until maths finished:

I was walking with another friend on the playground, then i saw stuart with his 2 friends ( one of them is also my friend) walking the opposit direction towards me.:

When we were pararllel he got out his hand and pushed me really hard!

me: " what the fuck did you do that for? I didnt do nothin' to you! "

He smirked, and then walked off saying nothing.

I am really angry and depressed now. I didnt go back after dinnertime today. Cause I am that down.. :-(

Ive said sorry countless of times and ment it but he wouldn't listen. He just gets ready to hit me.

I can't even hang out with my other friends because half of my friends ( he hangs out with). So im worried if i go up to them he might start a fight wich i don't wanna do. He is the tallest in year 9 twice the size of me, and pretty big. ( i know it would be a un fair fight ida get beaten).

And now i havn't got anyone to walk to school with , which sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know what to do?!?!?

Personally i think he's acting childish. Ive apoligised lots and he won't listen.

Thank you for reading this extreamally long post!!! Please Help with sensible advice.


just curious, but how old are you?

And using that kind of language. When I was 13, every time I said (censored), I giggled. That was three years ago.

Well of course I only use that kind of language with my friends or on the school yard. Never infront of my dad.

Why did you call him that? That's very random and probably hit a chord if he's taking it so hard. All you can really do is keep apologizing and stay away from him until he cools down. ... and might I add that I am so happy I only have to deal with this sort of drama through one person and not through everyone at my school. :P

"and probably hit a chord if he's taking it so hard. " Thats a heck of a chord to hit... Especially if it has been going on for days and he still wants nothing to do with you. I would hate to see what would happen if you truly did something to him meriting him acting like that. Of course there could be something that happened at some point in his life that you do not know about. I say give it a couple of days, and let him cool off some.

You were right a little off,... but still right. To be exact it took about 160 days - 4 months. Still worked though lol.

Probably very defensive of his dad. If someone went up to Bhuddo's son and made a joke about his mom, I wouldn't blame him for shooting the guy in the face.

How'd it go? It's been a while. Still not speaking with him? (And is he still mad as hell?)

No lol. We've been okay since about May now. Still along time for a guy to be mad right? But lol i've grown up since then lmao. Ive learnt to only tease people that can handle it and to only use him as a walk to school friend.....lmao.

i think that you should ignore him. If he is this bad, he is not worth having as a friend as it is.

Hang out with other friends. Eventualyl he'll come back. If not screw him! If he keeps beating you up keep a knife visible on your belt so he knows your not going to screw around next time.

I like the fact that in america we have the right to bear arms (you know, to keep a dead bear's arms on your wall! lol!) Actually its probably not a good idea Check this out!

Lol But u need a license fo r guns. Knex guns r a substitute.

LOL no they aren't. A friend of mine and I were "sparring" and he point blanked me with killerk's pistol (in the chest), supposedly the most powerful knex "gun" around. It wasn't a deterrent at all, I still headlocked him.

knex guns suck! If you want a legal weapon get a bow (but please don't take this fight that far)

just looks like some novelty/goth jewelry to me, if you hit a bloke in the jaw wid it it would proberbly fall apart leaving you looking quite silly, I used to have a proper knuckle duster, lost it in a card game though :-(

nice, the one I had was quite obviously a knuckle duster, so concealability was a major problem.

Oh this one was too, but it had a little "knob" on it for going into the belt hole. It was rather ingenious, really .

What do you reckon to the thing LinuxH4xOr is presenting(above)?

We have the right to bear arms in war (against the government)
I add that last bit in, since that was the whole point of adding it in, even though it doesn't state it.


10 years ago

Can we do something to stop the foul language here?

I thought I saw someone write about fowl language, I guess it was foul language ;-)

It just isn't funny if I have to explain the joke LOL

If he can't sit down and talk like a mature person, then don't bother. If he's being stupid, and has violent tendencies, then you don't need to be talking to him. Just steer around him, and if he tries hitting you again, hit him with a sock full of batteries.

For starters, I find it interesting that you censored "wh*ore" but not "f***." In any case, if that seriously is all you said, and you have done your part to make amends, he probably has issues other than just that. If he still has plenty of people to hang out with, he's probably feeling pretty cool that he can kick you out and still have buddies to talk to. If I were in that situation, I'd probably send him a written apology. Not an email, not a post on his Facebook wall, but an actual, printed letter (typed if you have illegible handwriting, handwritten otherwise) mailed to his house. At that point, if I were in his position, I would think that you must truly be sorry to spend the time to produce a letter and spend the money for a stamp.


10 years ago

Like i always say in situations similar to this.... Just stab him in the face.

Or, slice him open with a spoon and feed from the fluids. Don't forget to save some for the kids at home.

now u know how i felt, when u did this to me

Me? Dm. You going to help or not.

UK schools often have a "buddy" system running - older kids trained to sort out playground spats that would just get blown up if teachers got involved. They carry messages to people who don't want to hear them (like your apology), and act as "referees" for people who want to talk a problem out. Does your school have something similar? You could get them to explain to your friend that you know you made a mistake, that you went to far, and you are genuinely sorry. Or you could go to his house after school, tell his parents that you upset your friend by mistake, and want to make up with him (bear in mind, though, that you would end up telling his parents what you called him).

Kiteman, I think your getting mixed up in UK primary schools. They are the only schools that have that system in the UK. Its not that effective. High schools don't have that system.